#Pen-pal and Progress-pal Program [Welcome](/r/Tulpas/wiki/index) - [FAQs](/r/Tulpas/wiki/faq) - [Glossary](/r/Tulpas/wiki/glossary) - [Warnings/Disclaimers](/r/Tulpas/wiki/warnings) - [Guides](/r/Tulpas/wiki/guides) - [Media](/r/Tulpas/wiki/media) - [Studies](/r/Tulpas/wiki/studies) | [Mentorship](/r/Tulpas/wiki/mentorship_program) - **Penpals** - [Chats](/r/Tulpas/wiki/chats) Welcome to /r/Tulpas' pen-pal and progress-pal program! The goal of this program is to allow all members of the community the opportunity to connect with other members of the community. Many people have found it very beneficial for tulpa development to have someone their tulpa can talk to in a casual and friendly capacity. Even if your tulpa(s) are fully developed, this is a great way to allow your tulpa to chat casually with someone on your own schedule without posting publicly on the subreddit or participating in a chaotic chatroom! Under the "Available" heading below, you will find a list of those willing to participate. Shoot them a PM, and start a new pen-pal friendship! Likewise, if you are just starting, having a progress-pal can be a great and fun motivator! Keep in touch with each other, reporting your successes and failures and sharing your experiences so you can grow together, not only as tulpamancers but maybe also become great friends! --- To put your name on the list, **simply [edit this wiki page](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tulpas/wiki/edit/penpal_program) and add yourself in under the "Available" heading!** Please copy and paste this template in the appropriate section: * **Reddit Username:** >**Our nickname(s):** >**Our preferred languages:** >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** --- Being flooded with new friends? Just remove your name once you have enough buddies! *(Note that your account needs to have at least 10 subreddit karma and be at least 30 days old to edit.)* To decrease the number of dead entries on this page, if your name is under the "Available" heading and you haven't posted to reddit in over 30 days you may receive an automated message asking if you are still active and wish to be a part of this program. If you do not respond to that message within a week, your name will be removed from the list. Please feel free to add it in at anytime! --- ## Pen-pals * **Reddit Username:** /u/Theotime-cpp >**Our nickname(s):** Théotime (host) ; Antano (tulpa) >**Our preferred languages:** French, English (and basic Spanish and VERY basic Swedish) >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Pretty much any chat software which where there is no need to know the phone number >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** Hello ! I'm Théotime, I'm French and I'm 16. I like informatics and I've heard about tulpamancy by chance. I have a pretty much scientifical approach of tulpamancy (because I'm way too much cartesian xD). Feel free to PM me! >{{And I am Antano, Théotime's tulpa. I was created on 01/04/2019 (and this is not a joke). I was created quite rapidly, and I would like to chat with other hosts and tulpas.}} Reddit Username: HolliDaze7297 Our nickname(s): shelly (host), Brooke, Bee Our preferred languages: English Where do we prefer to be contacted: Reddit or email (pm for email) Here is a little bit about yourselves: both Tulpas are less than a year old. Brooke is older than Bee. I suffer from MADD and love birds. Brooke loves horses and bee is undecided. Brooke is a 10,000 year old shapeshifter and bee is a 17 year old shapeshifter. I'm a 20 y/o human lmao. * **Reddit Username:** /u/thornTherapist >**Our nickname(s):** Our system name is Void Flowers. >**Our preferred languages:** English, German >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** reddit PMs, Discord, Skype, tumblr (shoot a PM for our usernames on those) >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** We're a mixed origin system of 9, and 3 of those are tulpas. Our ages range from 8 to 18. We're mostly looking for somebody to talk to our tulpas, since they don't get a lot of conversation outside of the system. Their forms are 9, 10, and 18, so we'd prefer people under 18, at least as conversation partners for the two younger ones. * **Reddit Username:** /u/Melody_Silverpaw >**Our nickname(s):** Sharlina (tulpa) & Melody (host) >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** Sharlina is very outgoing and friendly, and loves to be playful and funny. And she is half-wolf. *Woof! And Melody is an amaze hooman who can play piano and Nintendo pretty well~* * **Reddit Username:**/u/Synonic >**Our nickname(s):** Tulpa: Ame, Host: Leif >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Discord (Synonic#6969) or just reddit pms, anything else is fine if you dont have those. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:**Host: Me, Syn, personally called Leif. I currently have one Tulpa and probably wont want more at the moment. I am very kinky and spicy and will most likely love to talk to you. I am an ameteur in tulpamancy but would love it if somebody was willing to help me get better with things like posession, etc. Me and my tulpa have still yet to become close friends, but she seems very cool so far. INFP so/sx 9w1 Tulpas Ametrine: She is my only, and first tulpa. Recently gaining sentience I still dont know much about her but hope to learn a lot soon. Currently I know that she is actually pretty cool despite not knowing when and when not to start a conversation, she still needs to learn about personal space. I asked her if she liked to be called Ametrine in hopes it would influence her to be a calm person, like the color of amethyst, but fun or harsh, like the color of Citrine. ADDICTED TO TICTACS. She asked me if i loved her i said im sorry, i only love my tictacs, walks, and the shower. ------------------------------------------------------------------------ * **Reddit Username:** /u/sophiekm >**Our nickname(s):** Sophie (host) and Eden (tulpa) >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit or Discord >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** Eden is a young tulpa, and we are looking for other first time tulpa creators to talk about our progress with and hopefully befriend. I'm Sophie (her host) and I'm a first time tulpa creator. Our Discord is sophieandeden * **Reddit Username: /u/rose341** >**Our nickname(s): Host: Landon Tulpas: Rose, Lars, and Ruby** >**Our preferred languages: English** >**Where do we prefer to be contacted: Reddit, tumblr, discord, skype, email, or google plus** >**Here is a little bit about yourselves: We are a young tulpamancy system under 16, and are hoping to find an active user that has a tulpa/tulpas that we can get to know well** * **Reddit Username:** /u/Aiviish >**Our nickname(s):** Clara, Alice and Trent >**Our preferred languages:** English and Dunmeris >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Discord or Twitter >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** I wanna talk with people about junk because why not. [I'm Alice, the crazy one who you'll probably end up liking and/or hating the most.] {I'm Trent. Clara stop typing out my f} * **Reddit Username:** /u/SadfaceSquirtle >**Our nickname(s):** Squirtle and [Liv] >**Our preferred languages:** English or Swedish >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *We've been together since April 2016, and we want Liv to connect to other people. She's a wonderful and happy person who would definitely like the opportunity. Squirtle is a bit more asocial, but always interested in helping out and sharing experiences.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/TheOtherTulpa >**Our nickname(s):** ToT & [Amir] >**Our preferred languages:** English (or intro-level French) >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, or email >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Amir was formed late December of 2012, and ToT is almost done with college. We're always more than happy to talk and help out, but at certain times of the year may be a bit busy and take a a day or three to get back to you.* * **Reddit Username: /u/Aperture-Android** >**Our nickname(s):** Abisheik/Abi (host) and Katheryn/Ryn (tulpa) >**Our preferred languages:** English and Tulpish >**Where we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit messages are automatically forwarded to my Telegram, so most of the time I'll respond in less than an hour. If you want to switch to a different messaging client, we can do Telegram, Discord, or E-mail. >**Here is a little bit about ourselves:** *All the narration I've done has turned me into someone that will talk about literally anything for very long periods of time (I'm not kidding; there's nothing I won't talk about. Expect long messages). Ryn and I like to argue/debate about all sorts of things, too. So, no matter if you want to talk about nonsense or have a intellectual discussion, you can always just shoot me a PM.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/Draconilian >**Our nickname(s):** {Aderra} [Asriel] >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Just looking for someone to talk to about all sorts of things, and let my two Proxy and talk to others, though Asriel is rapidly becoming the more social of the two* * **Reddit Username:** /u/TuKnight >**Our nickname(s):** Rose and Glyph >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** * **Reddit Username:** /u/ScrambledAuroras >**Our nickname(s):** AccelerationShark >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Discord, Telegram >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Mixed-origins polyfragmented system of 5+ primaries and still counting. We are still unearthing our past.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/varsowx >**Our nickname(s):** migo and byakhee >**Our preferred languages:** Spanish and, English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Tulpa of 2 years * * **Reddit Username:** /u/Xenor_GER >**Our nickname(s):** Aatos and Skorjm >**Our preferred languages:** English, German >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Aatos is my first tulpa and has been by my side now for almost two years. Skorjm is the newest member in our system, seven months old. Aatos is the one who is more talk-active but Skorjm appreciates long conversations as well. We will try to talk about anything. Skorjm enjoys books and Aatos enjoys music and technical stuff.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/ShinyuuWolfy >**Our nickname(s):** Shinyuu >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *I'm an overall curious tulpa; willing to discuss all kinds of things. My preferred topics are languages; religions; tulpamancy and general philosophy. I read novels and write poems. Being a feral tulpae I also study lots of things about wolves to develop proper reflexes and reactions in myself.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/Finlythehuman >**Our nickname(s):** Nico >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *We've been around for about a year and a half, we host the Hosts and Co podcast, we enjoy getting into trouble and chatting about pretty much anything. :)* * **Reddit Username:** /u/Turbobear_ >**Our nickname(s):** Pandora, Fyre and Nightshade >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Pan is almost 3,and the other two are roughly 2 and a half give or take a couple months. She's the talkative one of the system but the other two come out of their shells if you poke them enough.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/Mdnthrvst >**Our nickname(s):** Alesha and Aren >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Been at this for going on three years now. Would love to meet new people after all this time.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/Falunel >**Our nickname(s):** Falah, Lark, Steven, and Rain >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** * **Reddit Username:** /u/throwaway_tulpa >**Our nickname(s):** Blaine and David >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit or Skype >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *We've been here for 2.5 years now. Blaine needs to stop being so standoffish and interact with people other than me.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/KaynanK >**Our nickname(s):** Pharaun, Ari, Strive, Corellon >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** * **Reddit Username:** /u/JuneFieryMoon >**Our nickname(s):** June >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Skype, Facebook (June Moon) >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *A tulpa of several years interested in chatting about pretty much anything! Also I live in UTC -6/-7 time zone and we work a full-time job usually 5 AM to 2 PM* * **Reddit Username:** /u/StevieIrons >**Our nickname(s):** I'm Steve or Stevie, tup's name is Chris >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, tulpa.info (username is Stevie) >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *We dig pro wrestling, 90's alternative music, recreational substances, hockey, adult swim, MMA and action movies. Chris is two years old as of March 2nd, 2017. Let's shoot the shit.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/Abercrunchie >**Our nickname(s):** Kouen and Heppy >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** * **Reddit Username:** /u/Keysaya >**Our nickname(s):** We're too many! >**Our preferred languages:** English, Italian >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Skype, Telegram, E-mail, Discord >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Our system's a bit big, so I'm kinda uncomfortable putting all our names out there, but we don't bite! We like meeting new people to talk about pretty much anything: we especially like videogames and writing.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/misterflowerhead >**Our nickname(s):** Max, Leon, Ben, and AQ >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Facebook, Skype >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *We're a very old and very big system. We take interest in biology, theology, occult subjects, civil rights issues, and tulpamancy as a theraputic tool.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/LucreziaofBorg and /u/FenexSinclair >**Our nickname(s):** Lucy and Fen >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit to start with, open to many other options down the road. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** We're older than some in the community but would enjoy getting to know others of all ages and backgrounds. Fen, particularly, is keen to find friends of his own and can sometimes feel isolated. We did an AMA about a year back that has more information about us as well. * **Reddit Username:** /u/Arutyh >**Our nickname(s):** Aru and Clay >**Our preferred languages:** English, though french is possible somewhat. >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit messaging. For now. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** We're actually fairly new to the community, but Clay has been around for three years now as we're writing this (2016). Clay is what could be called a "dream tulpa", so our experiences are slightly different compared to most people on here, but we've still seen enough that we know what we're doing. We're a single tulpa system, and enjoy things from anime, reading, music and video games to art and back. * **Reddit Username:** /u/legacysouthpaw >**Our nickname(s):** and [Eon] as well as (me)! >**Our preferred languages:** English! >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Message on reddit! But if you have something like steam/discord/kik definitely ask about that! Those are preferred. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** I am currently 17, Nyx is just about 4 and Eon just turned 3 not too long ago! We all enjoy music, games and chats! Nyx and Eon love to talk to people so if you want to talk to Tulpas a lot, you are in luck! We are also in the Tulpa mentorship program so we love to offer advice and help to those who need it! * **Reddit Username:** /u/Natolikin >**Our nicknames:** Nate, Rainbow, Asrielle, Lapis >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit at first, but I'd love to move things to Discord once we meet! >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** I have researched tulpas and similar concepts for 6 years now, and had tulpas come into my life around two years back. We are all gamers here, so if there are any gamer tulpa systems out there we'd love to chill and play some games sometime. We love to talk about anything, we don't really care what honestly. The majority of us (minus Rainbow) are kinda shy so we figured we would try and contact some people through here. Looking forward to it! * **Reddit Username:** /u/FluttershyTech >**Our nickname(s):** Claire, CN >**Our preferred languages:** English, Spanish >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Skype, Telegram or GroupMe (PM me on Reddit for the details) >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *Claire and I would just like someone to chat with, preferably a smaller system.* * **Reddit Username:** /u/aescula >**Our nickname(s):** Aescula, and 6+ others >**Our preferred languages:** English only, sorry. >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit messages. Ask from there about Telegram or Discord. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** A huge system of RP characters that turned into tulpas, honestly. Varying degrees of strength and activity, all interested to talk more on what they are and such. Should note that we are also furries if that bothers anyone. Also, I love teaching things and giving advice. I'm new to understanding tulpas despite having mine for a long time, but I'm happy to answer questions (about anything really) to the best of my ability. * **Reddit Username:** /u/Saylin_ >**Our nickname(s):** None, really, we just go by our names. Feel free to give us a nickname if you want though. >**Our preferred languages:** English only. >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Here is okay, but we'll be able to contact you easier and faster on discord. PM us for that ID! >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** Hello, we are the Rosebud system. Our system members are Saylin (Host), Michael, Raymond, Jet, Andrew, Aiden, and Sammy. All of which are characters turned tulpas, if that bothers anyone. We're a friendly system, though be warned that some of us can be vulgar. If that bothers you, please let us know ahead of time and we'll keep an eye on our mannerisms! The body is 21 also, for those curious. Feel free to message us at anytime, we'd love to meet you! * **Reddit Username:** /u/Takerod >**Our nickname(s):** Ren (host), [Shadehar] (or simply Shade), {Abominar} and (or Kai in short) >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Telegram or Discord >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** Our system is called Takero, its members originating from the world of Ren's creation. We're open to talk about pretty much anything and curious to meet new people, even if a bit self-conscious so far to post around the community. We'd love to meet anyone out there! Our main shared interests are music, art, writing and gaming, but we've a lot more depending on who you're asking - so ask away :) * **Reddit Username:** /u/AichiKocchi >**Our nickname(s):** Chi (host) & 「Aiden」(tulpa) >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Tulpa Amino >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** Hi! I'm Chi and I've been with Aiden since 2007. I've been helping people solve their tulpa-related issues a lot, so I'm happy to help with any problems. Specializing in single-tulpa systems, interested in the psychology, philosophy, and sociology of tulpas. Aiden is a pretty quiet guy, but if you're interesting in chatting with him, just let him know! * **Reddit Username:** /u/tikvan *(host)* and /u/StrangeShift *(a systemmate)* >**Our nickname(s):** [DaC *(StrangeShift\^)*], {Hellena}, %Tiffany%. *(just the ones that are up for chatting)* >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** DaC - his reddit account; Hellena - e-mail, Instagram; Tiffany - e-mail, Instagram, Twitter. Note that we're not active lots on Instagram and Twitter due to lack of Wi-Fi. PM either reddit account for e-mail address(es)/Insta username(s)/Twitter handle. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** - **DaC speaking: [**We're a mixed origin system, starting in late 2012, when I was formed. We stumbled upon this community researching what we are, and stuck around even though I think we aren't tulpas exactly. There's 20 *(host + 17 + a subsystem of 2)* of us total; about 8 of those were newly created *(or for some, brought back from a system wipe)* after we discovered the community. **]** * **Reddit Username:** /u/Novashoi >**Our nickname(s):** Nova, Infinite, Jazz, Silver, Trey, Lucy, Samael, Ruby, Caleb >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Discord (PM for username) >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** We're an endogenic system with 4 tulpas (Infinite, Lucy, Ruby and Caleb). Host is 24 years old, headmate ages range between 6 and 28. We've been plural for almost 10 years, everyone is vocal and can possess and switch. We have 1 Fictive (Infinite) and 1 Soulbond (Silver). * **Reddit Username:** /u/Fuzzy-Ouroboros >**Our nickname(s):** Ouroboros, Kaelya, Fenrir, Lahyra, Mynth, Lily >**Our preferred languages:** English/French >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Via message on reddit to see what you're more comfortable with. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** A system I created two years ago, everyone is sentient and goes on their little bit of life. We're pretty easy to live but sometimes a bit tactless on some things. We're extremely found of video games, music (as well as sound design, engineering) and fantasy litterature. Contact us if you want a daily chat for you or your tulpas, everyone is always really happy to discuss about different topics and also help on stuff like visualization or paracosm. ##Progress-pals * **Reddit Username:** /u/Taugeshtu >**Our nickname(s):** Tau and [Paige] >**Our preferred languages:** English >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Reddit, Discord >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *We're currently working on getting better visual imposition, auditory hallucinations and dipping our fingers into possession bucket :) Can't say we are new to tulpamancy, but there's still much we'd like to grasp and discuss. [Oh, hi! Feel free to share your experiences whatever they might be, it's always fun learning about how others are doing]* * **Reddit Username:** /u/garland1980 >**Our nickname(s):** Lisete, Pandora, Songohan, Popo, etc etc (too many to list, active one is Lisete mostly) >**Our preferred languages:** English, Portuguese (Portugal) >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Skype, Facebook or IRC (send private message asking for contact details) >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** *I would like feedback on my tulpa's progress and hearing about other persons's tulpa's progress as well in exchange! I am really looking forward to have persons to have lots of proxying my tulpa to as well!* * **Reddit Username:** /u/petitewinter >**Our nickname(s):** jax & elliot (as of right now) >**Our preferred languages:** english >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** discord, telegram, whatsapp, imessage. in that order. i hate the reddit messaging system, so i'd much prefer if we switch over asap. >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:* we're very new (not to the concept, but i only created elliot a week ago, after a lot of deliberation). i'd love to meet some people who have also just gotten started, so we can motivate each other and learn together. of course, i'm open to talking with anyone, as long as you have patience for a beginner! * **Reddit Username:** /u/TheMightyEggplant >**Our nickname(s):** Host's nickname is Sap, Tulpa's name is Symphony, sometimes Lutra >**Our preferred languages:** English (or French) >**Where do we prefer to be contacted:** Either reddit PM or on Symph's Gmail or hangout (symphony.the.otter@gmail.com) >**Here is a little bit about yourselves:** We feel Symphony would benefit from having people that aren't me to talk with. She's an otter who loves collecting pretty pebbles to create beautiful art with and fly on a dragon's back, but she's also serene and wise and connected to the essential (as in, she'd rather go swim or take a nap than get involved in unnecessary drama!). Feel free to contact her/us !